A Comparison of Generational Conflicts in The Kiss and Marriage Is a Pr

Generational Conflicts in The Kiss and conglutination Is a Private Affair As a familys lineage develops, there may be apparent differences in the way of thinking, attitude, and devotion to tradition between the generations. These differences or developments can either build up friction between generations, or in some cases ultimately heal the discord between other generations. Both Julia Alvarezs contemporary short story, The Kiss, and Chinua Achebes classic wedding party Is a Private Affair reveal the conflict that can erupt when one generation of a family diverges from its traditional or family values. Both accounts display differences in the way of thinking of the conflicting parties and touch upon the aspect of healing their generation gap by offering some kind of appeasement. There is the major report portrayed in both stories. In from each one, there is a forbidden marriage that comes about as a result of children disagreeing with and hence rebelling against the traditional impost or values of their family. The major protagonist in each account coincidentally is the father who goes to great extents to estrange the rebellious offspring. Despite the fact that each story is written within a different era and culture, they both exhibit the dominant male figure as the family head, with very little or no input on what is right for the family from any other member. The paternal figures are strongly opinionated and do not waver from what they believe should be the proper behavior of their children, resulting in conflicts between Papi and Sofia, and Okeke and Nnaemeka. Foreshadowing of the main conflict in The Kiss is evident when Papi cautions his daughters by exclaiming, I do not compulsion ... ...s in real life situations, the birth of a child or in this case grandchildren, brings about pacification to feelings of dissension. The celebration of a new life, therefore, is farther more important than any scuffle that might have hindered previous marital relationships, and both Achebe and Alvarez have proved this with their own unique styles. Works Cited Achebe, Chinua. Marriage Is s Private Affair. Literature. 5th ed. Ed. Robert DiYanni. New York McGraw-Hill Higher Education, 2002. 253-257. Alvarez, Julia. The Kiss. Literature. 5th ed. Ed. Robert DiYanni . New York McGraw-Hill Higher Education, 2002. 488-495. Atwood, Margaret. Happy Endings. Literature. 5th ed. Ed Robert DiYanni. McGraw-Hill Higher Education, 2002. 496-499.